{"id":324,"date":"2026-02-11T19:49:04","date_gmt":"2026-02-11T19:49:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/paul.macpherson.photography\/TMI\/?p=324"},"modified":"2026-02-11T19:49:07","modified_gmt":"2026-02-11T19:49:07","slug":"the-conversation-im-about-to-have","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paul.macpherson.photography\/TMI\/the-conversation-im-about-to-have\/","title":{"rendered":"The Conversation I\u2019m About to Have"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Next Wednesday, I sit down with my oncologist again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not for reassurance. Not for symbolism. For interpretation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Last Friday \u2014 February 6 \u2014 I had my CT scan. I didn\u2019t walk into it expecting poetry. I walked into it expecting language. Measurements. Comparisons. Words like <strong>stable<\/strong>,<strong> increased<\/strong>, <strong>nonspecific<\/strong>, <strong>follow-up<\/strong> \u2014 the vocabulary of a life where progress is counted in millimetres and meaning is decided in committee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By the time we meet next week, the scan won\u2019t be \u201cnew\u201d anymore. It\u2019ll be absorbed into the system. Filed. Compared. Placed against the previous baseline. And then the real question will surface \u2014 not \u201cwhat does the scan say?\u201d but:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What do we do now?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because the scan is not clean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The dominant liver lesion \u2014 the one that sits at the resection margin and carries most of the weight in this story \u2014 has grown. The other liver lesions appear stable. There is no definite extrahepatic disease in the abdomen and pelvis. The chest CT mentions a new 2 mm lung nodule described as nonspecific, something to watch rather than something to fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is not chaos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But it is not the kind of clarity you hope for when you\u2019re on a trial drug and trying to believe the slope is changing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So the conversation next Wednesday is going to be about <strong>three things<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>definitions, velocity, <\/strong>and<strong> decision gates.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. First: What counts as progression?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first thing I\u2019m going to ask is the most clinical question, because it determines everything downstream:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Does this scan meet the trial definition of progression?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not \u201cdoes it look worse?\u201d That question is emotional.<br>The real question is bureaucratic:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What lesions are being tracked as \u201ctarget lesions\u201d under the trial rules?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What are the official measurements from baseline versus now?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Has the <strong>sum of diameters<\/strong> crossed the threshold that triggers a protocol decision?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because in trial medicine, you can have worsening biology without being labelled \u201cprogression.\u201d And you can also have a single dominant lesion drive the entire classification, even if everything else stays quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I want to know which one this is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Second: Is the drug doing anything \u2014 even if it\u2019s not shrinking tumours?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The second question is the one my brain keeps trying to answer on its own:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Is there evidence that the drug is slowing growth even if it isn\u2019t shrinking the dominant lesion?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is where the difference between standard care and trial care becomes real. Standard chemo is often judged by whether tumours shrink. But many newer therapies \u2014 especially targeted agents \u2014 can sometimes show benefit by stabilizing disease, slowing velocity, and preventing spread.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I\u2019ll be asking:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Are the stable lesions a sign of control?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is the dominant lesion behaving differently than the rest \u2014 and if so, why?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Are we seeing mixed responses (one lesion progressing, others stable)?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is that a known pattern with this class of drug?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don\u2019t want false optimism. I want honest framing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If the drug is failing, I want that said plainly.<br>If the drug is doing <strong>something<\/strong>, even imperfectly, I want that understood precisely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Third: What do we do about a single dominant problem?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the practical part.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If one lesion is growing and everything else is holding, the question becomes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Can we control the one problem without throwing away the whole strategy?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I will ask directly:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Is there an option for local control of the dominant lesion (ablation, radiation, resection, or other targeted approaches)?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Would the trial protocol allow local intervention while staying on the drug?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If local control isn\u2019t possible, what are the next systemic options?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The underlying reality is simple: I\u2019m not interested in either\/or thinking unless the system forces it. If there\u2019s a way to keep pressure on the disease without resetting everything, I want to know what it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Fourth: The lung nodule \u2014 signal or noise?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The report notes a new 2 mm lung nodule and calls it nonspecific. That word matters. \u201cNonspecific\u201d is radiology\u2019s way of saying: <em>we\u2019re not making a claim.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Still, I\u2019ll ask about it, because clarity is calming:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>How common are tiny nodules like this?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What is the follow-up schedule?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What would make it concerning versus background noise?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not because I\u2019m panicking \u2014 but because I\u2019m not interested in leaving loose threads untied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Fifth: Timing \u2014 what happens next, and when?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Treatment schedules and scan schedules don\u2019t just mark time \u2014 they define it. So I\u2019ll ask for a clean timeline:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>When is the next scan?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What are we expecting to see by then?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What would trigger a change before that point?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And I\u2019ll ask the question that sits underneath everything:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If the next scan looks the same \u2014 dominant lesion up, others stable \u2014 do we stay the course or pivot?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I want to know the decision rules before the next emotional event arrives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">This is the phase where the body waits, and the mind negotiates<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is a particular kind of mental fatigue that comes from living inside treatment. Not physical exhaustion \u2014 something sharper. The constant interpretation. The constant restraint. The steady effort of not overreacting to data while also refusing to ignore it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve learned something already in this phase of my treatment:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cancer is not just fought in the body.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It is negotiated in the mind.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And next Wednesday is a negotiation day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not because we\u2019re in crisis.<br>Because the scan is speaking, and it needs to be translated into a plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I\u2019m going in with one goal:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>To leave that appointment with clear definitions, <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>a clear timeline, and a <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>clear understanding of what is being measured \u2014 and <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>what decisions those measurements will trigger?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The numbers don\u2019t get to narrate my story on their own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I will listen to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And I will ask the right questions until the strategy is visible again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Next Wednesday, I sit down with my oncologist again. Not for reassurance. Not for symbolism. For interpretation. Last Friday \u2014 February 6 \u2014 I had my CT scan. I didn\u2019t walk into it expecting poetry. I walked into it expecting language. Measurements. Comparisons. Words like stable, increased, nonspecific, follow-up \u2014 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":327,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"A first-person look at my Feb 6 CT scan and the questions I\u2019ll bring to my oncologist\u2014progression rules, RECIST, trial decisions, and next steps.","jetpack_seo_html_title":"My CT Scan and the Oncology Conversation I\u2019m About to 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